I was never really good with women, I wasn’t terrible either, but I never had the touch. You know the touch that effortlessly and naturally attract women to you.

And sometimes I would go to a club with men friend, and I would see these guys that would approach a beautiful women and 30 minutes later, his leaving the club with her on his arms. I think to myself “wow! That was amazing, how he do that? I wish I was him.” Yep… that use to be me, the bench warmer watching from the side line that is until I learned the 5 secret traits of how to attract women naturally.

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Anyway… so what makes these men naturally attractive to women? And can you learn how to attract women naturally and effortlessly? Of course you can! The very first secret of these men who naturally attracts women is that they have all learned it, they all have spent time to learn how to attract women, whether consciously or unconsciously.

All these men’s have traits, and deep down inner believes that draws women to them. We are not talking about techniques, pickup lines, or ways of tricking on women into your bed. Pickup lines, and techniques do work but only to insecure girls who would buy into them.

That is not what this article is about, if you want to learn pickup lines, and techniques, there are lots of others sites for them. This article is about developing you in the best men you can be, a man who naturally attracts women.

Trait #1: Have a Life Outside of Her

One of the biggest lie in our society right now, is the ideal of a perfect love relationship between the sexes. I’m not a cynic I believe in love, I love romance, and I love hanging out with my girlfriend. What I’m against is the ideal relationship that most people expect, especially when you’re young.

I remember when I was a teenage; I would tell my friends that “if I met a girl I love, I want to spend every moment with her!” That’s a LIE, and everybody done it. It doesn’t matter if you’re a girl or a guy, you probably have had that though sometimes in your life, and most men still do. They might not think about it anymore, but they sure act like it when they meet a hot girl.

So what does this have to do with having a life, and learning how to attract women? Well, let me ask you this question, if you met a girl, and all she does is call you all day, ask what you’re doing all the time, and gets pissed if you don’t pick up your phone, would you like a girl like that?

Of course not, you’ll probably think she is needy, clingy, and have no life. But that’s exactly what most men do when they meet a beautiful girl; they make the girl their only reason for living. They call too much, are always available if she has a problem, and are so afraid that if he doesn’t cater to all her needs she won’t like him anymore.

I must admit, some guys do become smarter, at least they think they did. They realizing that being needy and clingy doesn’t work. So the instead they take the opposite approach, now they wait 3 day to call her, and they don’t become available to her all the time.

But that doesn’t work either, why? Because these “guys” has only change their strategies on how to attract women, but not their core approach. Everything they do to avoid being seen as needy is still coming from a place of insecurity. All their attention is still focused on her, and not on their own life.

So if you really want to learn how to attract women, and become a man that is naturally attractive to women. Then have a life outside of her, find a hobby, focus on your career, do anything that isn’t just about her.

To read on about traits 2,3, and 4 of how to attract women and be rejection proof see part 2 of How to attract women.
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