The very first thing to learning the art of seducing a woman is to figure out what woman would look for in a man. And unfortunately to most men, trying to understand how to seduce a woman is like trying to figure out quantum physics.
But this is perfectly normal, as no one is born to know how to seduce a woman. And beside generally speaking although men and women have more in common as human being, but there are still a lot of difference in the ways both sexes thinks.
Women think differently than men, and for most men trying to figure out what goes on in most women head can be extremely confusing.
Anyway, learning how to seduce a woman isn’t merely as systematic as what most guys would like. It isn’t about learning a bunch of techniques or pick up line, it’s more about changing the way you think about women and dating, and ironing out the “quirks” in your personality that doesn’t quiet belong.
Like I said earlier, part of learning the ways to seduce a woman is to simply understand them, and accept the differences between the sexes. But keep in mind that there is a huge difference between understanding a woman, and trying to figure them out.
What I mean is that most guys tents to take the route of trying to figure out every little thing that a women do. They spent hours watching every movement a woman makes, and then they try to figure out what it all means and somehow come up with a strategy to win her heart.
There is no way that you’ll know exactly what the women is thinking by analysing her behaviours or what she said to you. It will only confuse you more. To understand a woman isn’t about trying to anticipate what she is thinking. It’s about understood the ways of a female, and accepting the fact that a girl will always be a girl.
Now that you have got your head wrap around the concept of understanding a woman, the second thing that is extremely important when it comes to seducing a woman is communication. Women crave connection more than anything, so take your time and learn how to connect with them.
And if you are a shy guy by nature and usually not much of a conversationalist don’t worry. Women don’t really want you to talk a lot anyway, they just want you to listen and ask the right question about them. They want a man who is willing to take the time to get to know her, and figure out who she is as a person and what she’s looking for.
Another thing to keep in mind when trying to seduce your women is to be patience. What most guys do is try to force their way in, and trying to overcome any hurtles that she throws at him. Don’t get mad or anger if she resists your advance, this is the time when you try to find out how she feels about the situation.
No women wants to feel like you’re just using her for sex, which you’re just going to get yours and leave. As a man you don’t have to worry about appearing too easy, but she does. So, if your woman is feeling uncomfortable about the situation, don’t keep on pushing, instead stop and acknowledge her feelings. And this doesn’t mean that you stop completely, you just simple let her know that you do care about her feeling, and you don’t take her lightly or just for sex.
The bottom line is every woman just wants to feel special. So make her feel special by being romantic, and genuinely interested in her. This doesn’t mean that you have to be the nice guy who caters to all her need, because that’s extremely unattractive to women. Everything mentions above should be done from a place of genuine interest and caring, instead of you trying to impress her in any way.